Virtualbox asks to run /etc/init.d/vboxdrv setup every time for my debian 2.6.32-5-amd64

I tried many things on the web, like uninstall virtualbox-4.2, dkms, linux-headers-"uname -r"
I still can not make it work.

in a way

what i found instead is that if you run

# modprobe vboxdrv

before running virtualbox, you will not have that sign

so I just add

 vboxdrv 

in /

 /etc/modules

which is equivalent to run

  'modprobe vboxdrv' 

after system start